We love our children. And the more we love them, the more we are hurt by those moments when our child deceives us.

Having caught our child in a lie, we are offended, outraged and shocked at the same time by the very fact of deception, but not all of us are able to understand the true cause of this incident. But often we, "taking measures", try to fight only with the consequence, without affecting the causes, which sometimes provokes our kids to relapse.

So, for example, with the beginning of kindergarten, many parents suddenly hear from the baby that someone is offending him in the group, even hitting him, and the one who was only recently considered the best friend. Mom and other relatives angrily demand to punish the "aggressor", but during the proceedings it turns out that the "offender" only hugged or kissed the child, and he incorrectly formulated what was happening. Parents are almost horrified - their child started lying!

However, parents should remember that any "real" lie is a deliberate distortion of real information, but this concept applies only from a certain age of the child. Therefore, it is better to listen to the opinion of child psychologists who claim that for children of younger and middle preschool age there is hardly a definition of a lie at all.

Interestingly, for four- and five-year-olds, the so-called "imaginary" lies are characteristic, based solely on the richest children's imagination. At this age, it is very difficult for a child to separate the fictional from the real, besides, he often tends to supplement the real with the fictional, because this is his own perception of the world around him, no more. Is it possible to blame a kid for an excess of imagination?

Surprisingly, parents themselves often teach their child to lie, which is initially completely unusual for him.

- Firstly, by example. Observing from day to day the "duality" of parental behavior (in the family, among strangers), a preschooler child begins to consider such a norm of behavior as natural.

- Secondly, lies often become a real "outlet" for children who are brought up in excessively strict conditions. The fear of punishment in such families is an incredibly fruitful (and most effective) soil for its cultivation. It is a lie arising from a sense of fear that is sometimes capable of assuming the most monstrous dimensions and guises, subsequently crippling the child's psyche and causing neuroses.

- Thirdly, children who are complexed and "disliked", growing up in families where parents are indifferent to children's problems, are most often disposed to lie. In order to attract attention to himself, to prove his importance, the child first begins to "embellish" his achievements, and subsequently can completely "invent" himself and a "new" life, as a result of which his self-esteem will also increase. Casa de apostas Sapphirebet oferece a oportunidade dizer em slots por dinheiro real. Entre. Entre. Dê uma olhada nisso. Página https://sapphirebet.com/br/line/darts Registre-se e aposte em championship ao vivo/linha agora mesmo!